10 Things Every 25 – 30+ Adults Encounter Before Marriage

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Marriage… men and women every individual evaraina oka certain point of time lo they are supposed to tie a knot. Marriage anedi oka destiny lantidi inka mana Indian culture lo Manam antha pelliki icchey importance gurinchi separate ga cheppe avasaram ledu.

Ika gents ki 25 years vastey chalu marriage time vachesindi antu intlo parents chesay hadavidi gurunchi manaku telsindey. Life lo konchem settle avadaniki time tiskoni struggle aiyye singles gurinchi kastalu aithay mana andariki telsindey. Age pergutundi relatives, neighbours, society lo naluguru naalugu maatalu antunaru antu pedda vallu pikey class lu every bachelor common ga face chesay problem.

Ala 27 nundi 30+ age group vallu intlo and society lo common ga face chesay problems ento oka look eskondi.

1. They make you feel like you’re only single left in the world.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Men:

Nee age group friends andariki marriage aipoyyi, iddaru pillalu kuda unnaru. Niku matram inka marriage avvadam ledu, nee kantey chinna pillalaki kuda marriage avtundi nuvvu matram inka alagey unnav antuntaru.

Women:

Ea amma nee age antha, ammaiyulu 25 years lopu marriage chesukovali antu kanipinchina varu antha manalni kani penchina vaala kante kuda ekkuva interest chupisthu girls age ni

2. Villu ekkadiki vellina ‘centre of attraction’.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Birthday or marriage invitation vacchindi kada ani aa function ki velladame vila thappu. Ala enter avthamo ledo relatives lo evaro okaru mee abbayi/ammayi ki matches chudatam leda? mammalini chudamantara? Inka pelli cheyyara? Antu function tho sambandam lekunda villani centre of attraction chesestaru.

Women: Oka 25 age group unna ea girl ayyina functions or parties ki velthey chalu kanpinchina valu antha matches chusthunara, chudamantara, mee ammayi chala chala bagundi, antu encourage chesay relatives, neighbours max 90% untaru. Villa valla girls face chesay frustration levels and problems ela untayo mana andariki telsindey.

3. So-called married or bachelor friends tag you in marriage meme social posts.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Men: FB lo tagged notification vasthundi enta ani check chestey? So-called friends villani ‘tag a friend whom you are waiting to dance in his marriage’ ane FB posts, instal memes lo tags chestuntaru.

Women: Ee social taggings boys kanna girls ea mundu untaru, ‘Mehndi, Sangeet, lanti marriage meme posts lo ekkuva tag chestuntaru. Ilanti things ekkuva marriage aipoyyina girls, kavalani single ga unna girlfriends mida ilantivi try chestuntaru.

4. Relatives, neighbours, friends, evaraina sare okatey common question?

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Men:

Em ra pelli dawath eppudu? ani friends, Enti pappu annam eppudu tinipisthav? ani relatives. Neighbours gurinchi aithay chepoddu parents tho roundtable meetings, debates, discussions, petti mari danini united nation meeting kanna pedda hot topic chestaru.

Women: 25 age group unna girls singles ga unnaru anthey ika relatives, family, cousins, ila theda lekunda common ga adigey question pelli eppudu? Adi vinganey bayataki oka positive smile icchina, mind voice eskoni tittukuney varu manalo chala varaku untaru yes or no?

5. Never matter how old you’re? But some people will always remind you that you are getting old.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

MEN:

Roju roju ki age pergutundi ankuntunava? leka taggutundi ankuntunava? antu age ni remind chestuntaru. Ee gap lo birthday vacchindo chaccharu anthey age tho saha mari remind chestharu. Adi vinna variki awna manam nijanga old avthunnama anna doubt raka manadu.

Women: Same situation, edo oka reason cheppi marriage matches postpone chesthunna every single girl routine ga face chesay common question, Roju roju ki age pergutundi ankuntunava? leka taggutundi ankuntunava? antu age ni remind chestuntaru.

6. Those moments when someone comes with a wedding invitation to your home.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Trivikram cinemallo time ki pade punch la, ekkadi nundi vastharo teliyadu kani time ki vastharu wedding card pattukoni relatives or neighbours. Sare vacchina vallu urikey untara kadu mee son/daughter marriage eppudu antu topic start chestaru. Appudu singles mind voice ento mana andariki telusindey……!

Women: Friend mummy oo, relatives oo wedding invitation tiskoni intiki vastaru, vacchina varuu urikey untara ledu mee ammayiki matches start chesara, chudaka pote chudandi lekapote cheppandi mammalni matches chudamantara antu parents uchitha salahalu istaru.

7. When you open curriculum vitae or resume haunts your “Unmarried’ relationship status.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Marriage set aiyye mundu manchi job lo set avvali ani job portals lo interviews lo resume update chesina prathi sari ‘unmarried’ status bothers you personally but we won’t share it with anyone else because it matters kada.

8. If all your friends got married, then they never consider you as a human being.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Men:

Awnu vinadaniki konchem weird ga unna idi nijam if mee friends gang lo almost andariki marriage ayyindi anukondi appudu occasions, functions, parties, and outings ki couple gangs ea kalisi vetuntaru. Single ga unna friends max avoid cheyadaniki try chestaru.

Women: Intha kanna torture inkokati undadu, assale intlo, bayata andaru marriage avvaledu torture okavaipu aithay. Marriage aiyyina friends kuda atleast adgadam pakkana pettandi villatho ekkuva interact avvaru.

9. People start showing sympathy towards them.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Men: Pelli avvadu ankuntaro? leka ika eppatiki pelli jargadu? ankuntaro teliyadu kani kontha mandi sympathy chupinchadam start chestaru. Intha kanna embarrassing situation em untadi cheppandi singles ki.

Women: Assale girls konchem marriage late aiyyindi ani telistey chalu, relatives, neighbours, even friends ila andaru sympathy chupinchadam start chestaru.

10. They became lame jokes stuff to friends and others.

Adults Encounter Before Marriage

Men: Assale match fix avvaka friend okadu dilemma lo untey, ee friends untaru kada era ‘dowry’set avvadam leda? And ika eppatiki ila bachelor ga ne untava antu friends andari madya jokes crack chestuntaru. (just for fun).

Women: Ee type girls lo ekkuva undaru ane ankuntunna aiyyina alanti friends evaraina unte ika anthey…….!

Dear boys and girls ee reasons kakunda inka emaina common situations or things untey please do comment.