Confusions that we have in our life

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Monna release aina Mental madhilo anna movie lo hero ki unna chinna chinna confusions chupinchi thana life lo important decision aina life partner confusion main theme cheskoni chaala baaga chupinchaaru… but inka chaala confusions mana life lo unnai Manishi puttina daggarinundi chanipoyevarku confusion !! confusion!! Confusion!!! ( Read in Tagore Chiranjeevi way :P).. so alaanti lo konni important decisions/events lo pade confusions meekosam.. thappulu unte forgive me !!!

Passion Vs Profession

Yes pathika yellu (25 years) unna yee ammai or abbaiki unde common confusion idhi.. ikkada manam modhata 4 categories of manushula gurinchi maatladukovaali:
Passion, Profession rendu same unnavallu
Passion ledu Profession ledu edo okati life ala saagiponi ani anukune vallu kondaru
Reason edaina avvochu konthamandhi thama passion ni pakkana petti profession lo undevallu.confusionPassion ledu.. but profession ante interest kuda ledu babai ane vallu ento naakem kaavaalo naaku telidu ane vaallu…
First 2 categories vallaki peddha confusion undadhu.. kaani ee 3rd category undhee… profession ki passion ki Madhya kottu mittu aadutuntaaru…atu passion ki nyayam cheyyaleka.. Profession ki anyanam cheyyaleka sathamathamavthuntaaru.
Ika 4th category gurinchi naaku cheppentha Kapakity (capacity) ledu confused souls…
Deeni gurinchi detailed ga inka eppudaiana maatladukundhaam..

Mid 20 lo kastapadandi Vs Ippudu kaakapothe Life inkeppudu enjoy cheyyali
Passion Vs Profession tarvatha.. athi peddha confusion idhi… kontha mandhi emo job vachaka 10- 15 years kastapadandi.. tarvatha mee future baaguntundi enjoy cheyochu antaaru… naaku okkati ardham kaadu enjoy cheyyalsina age lo kastapadi tarvatha entha time unna dabbulu unna em pikuthaam ani…
Inkoka point of view enti ante… this is the time we have to enjoy repu em avuthundo evariki telusu unna rojulu enjoy cheyali ane argument okati untadi.. malli akkada conflict enti ante.. ippudu ila future gurinchi aalochana lekunda pothe … emauthundi naa future ki repu pelli aithe obligations avanni ela handle cheyali ani..confusionEnto babai ee life…. appudappudu naaku em anipistadi ante devudu ninnu bhoomi meedha puttinchetappude “nuvvu inni years brathukuthaav ra ani andariki predefined life ichi pampisthe danni batti life plan cheskovachu ani” else andariki oka standard years ichesi meeku unna time intha (eg 50 years) mee istam em podusthaaro podavandi ani cheppina baagundu.

Love Vs attraction
Konchem complicated subject… deeni gurinchi maatlade experience, anubhavam rendu naaku levu… but I will try (only male point of view chepthaanu)…
Naa drushtilo aithe chusina prathi ammai nachithe adi valla meedha unna attraction…
Ala kaakunda oke ammai ni enni saarlu choosina oke level of feeling unte adey love… confusionAlaa manam roju entho mandhi ammailani chustuu untaam… vallallo entho mandhi mana kallaku nachuthuntaaru kaani aa kallaku nachina vallalo konthamandhi tho maatlaadi travel chesaake evaro okaru mana manasuki nachuthaaru…
So alaa mundhu kallaku nachi tarvatha mella mellaga manasuki kuda nache vallu dorikentha varaku… confusion confusion…

Friend-zoned Vs Love
Love Vs Attraction kante idhi inka konchem complicated subject yee… ( again male point of view).
Ikkada ekkuvaga suffer ayyedhi abbailu.. oka ammai tho friendship cheste unless maaku rest of the life meetho kanapadaka poyenthavaraku aa friendship ante line daati love ane circle loki enter avvamu…
Aaa ammai ki dhairyam chesi Love ani chepdhaam ante!! Emo thanatho unna friendship ane relation ekkada effect authundo ani baaadha Love express cheyakunda alaage so called Friendzone lo undi podhaam ante again mana lopala unna vaadiki answer cheppukovaali.confusionMaa abbaila logic enti ante friend ga okarini okaru vidi pokunda unna vallam .. repu aa ammai evaro okarni pelli chekovali evado stranger ni thana life loki welcome cheppe badhulu …okka step munduku vesi kaastha maa gurinchi aalochinchi kurchi chakkaga maa friendzoned baadha gurinchi charchiste life antha kalisi undochu emo ani chinna aasha..
Malli two sides untaai friendship if different love is different renditni ela combine chestaav ani in my opinion good friends can be a good couple…

Quality of people vs Quantity of people:

Oka roju oka kurradi intiki vaalla relatives vacharu… vallu vellipoina tarvatha velli aa kurraadu valla ammani “ amma ippudu mana intiki vachare.. vaallanu nuvvu eppudu tiduthu untaav kadha aina kuda vallu vachinapudu enduku amma antha prema chupinchadam valla meedha ?” ani adigaadu..
Daaniki valla amma “eppudu evaritho em avasaram vastundo evariki telusu… lopala entha vaallu nachakunna bayatiki alaa undaali… aina neeku ivannai telidu le ra.. “ ani cheppindi…
Daaniki aa kurradu “Amma oka manishi nachakapoina vallatho normal ga maatladaalaa ?.. repu vaaditho edo avasaram vastundemo ani eroju ila manaku nachannattu undadam thappu kada ani annadu… nachakapothe nachaledu anthe… daaniki lopala oka feeling pettukoni bayata inkola enuduku undaali ani adigaadu”.
Daaniki Vaalla amma “ Neeku vayasu perige koddhi ardham avthundi le “ ani navvi oorukundi..confusionAa abbai ki 25 yellu vachina ippatiki nachani vallatho enduku maatladalo ardham kaaledu…
Mana chuttu manaku nachina naluguru unte chaala…? Leka nachina nachakapoina nalabai (40) mandhi chuttu manam tiragaalaa?
But ikkada oka chinna point 4 manushulu unte chaalu ankunna vaadiki migitha 36 mandhi avasaraaniki help cheyakapothe accept chese dhairyam kudaa undaali sumi!!!

Money Vs Money with Happiness
Generally, job chese vallu two type’s untaaru:
Salary konchem thakkuva vache vallau but villaki they will have their own personal time for family friends and their hobbies, villaki konchem dabbulu ibbandhi ga unna they can manage it off.
Manchi high salary untundi.. but villaki office thappithe inko place teliyadu (most of the cases inthe)… vellaki spend cheyadaniki dabbu untundi kaani aa dabbu spend chese time undadhu frankly.6 - MoneyBut ikkada confusion ekkada untadi ante.. first category vaademo second category vaadini chusi.. vaadikenti full money life super le ankutaadu..
Second category vaadu .. first category vaadini chusi vaadikenti nakanna konchem salary thakkuva vachina family, friends tho happy ga untunnadu… ani
Paina cheppina confusion two category vallaki untundi… but frank ga cheppalante money doesn’t give you happiness… but ee confusion maatram manalni ventaaduthunnatte untadi..

Eppudu Nijam cheppali Vs Avasaram unnappudu abaddham cheppochu
Manalo chaala mandhi avasaraaniki chaalane abaddhaalu chepthu untaam… assalu abaddhalu enduku chepthaam ?? Naaku telisi important ga mostly ee 2 reasons:
Avathali valla santosham kosam or avathala vallu feel avthaaru ani
Situation nundi escape avvadaaniki..
But nenu monne oka maata vinna adi enti ante “Nuvvu evarikaina abaddham chepthe … that means you are drawing a line and creating a gap between you and the opposite person anta”7 - IppuduBut eppuudu nijaalu maatladi frank ga unte emo pogaru antaaru… leka neeku avathala vallatho maatladatam teliyadu antaaru….. adey abaddham cheppdaam ante mana lopala okadu untaadu kadha vaadiki answer cheppukovaalsi vastadi.. ento chetha confusion… finally oka conclusion ki vastaam adi enti ante situation edi demand chesthe adi chepdhaam either truth or lie.
Inka emanna confusions unte comments lo kakkeyandi….