Things you can relate to if you have a hard time saying “No”

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Basic ga manaki istamaina work manaki entha kashtamaina chestham. Kani adhe okavela manaki istam lekapoina cheyalsivasthe, edho mohamataniki ‘ok’ ani chepestham. Okavela adhe mohamatam mana alavatu ga marithe! Inka anthe ‘no’ ela cheppalo teliaka, em reason ivvalo teliaka, ‘ok’ chepestham. Meelo chala mandhi ilanti istam lekapoina, edho mohamatam tho ok cheppina situations face chesi untaru. Here are some struggles that you can relate to when saying ‘No’ becomes hard.

Em Reason Ivvali?

hard time saying “No”Evarana edhana favour adigithe chalu, first manam em reason cheppi thappichukundama ani alochistham. Ye reason chepthe baguntadi, ela chepthe vallani badha pettakunda no chepochu, anni enno thought processes mana mind lo jaruguthu untai.

Idhi Enduku Cheppanu!

hard time saying “No”Baaga alochinchi, edo oka reason chepestham. But cheppaka, asalu ee reason enduku ichama, inkemmana ivalsindi, asalu ivakunda vallaki help cheyalsindi ani konni konni sarlu regret aithamu. Konni sarlu chala alochinchi, ‘na puppy ki bath cheyinchali’ lanti silly reasons tho no cheppestham.

Eesari ela aina ‘No’ cheppalsinde!

hard time saying “No”
Manam ala ‘No’ cheppaleni, prathi sari, next time aithe pakka cheppali, entha kastamga una cheppali ani decide aithamu. Manalo manam chala practice cheskuntam, ela cheppali ani okallame unapudu room lo preparations kuda aithai. But last ki, manam chese prathi attempt, next attempt ki daari thisthadi.

Endhukantee……

hard time saying “No”

By chance, okavela manam no cheppina, daaniki oka Mahabharatam antha pedda story follow aithadi. Simple ga no cheppadam mana valla kadhu kadha. Anduke antha pedda sodhi cheppi thappinchukuntam.

You try to avoid them:

hard time saying “No”

‘Can you please do me a favour?’ ee maata malli ekada vinalsi vasthado ani manam ala prathi daniki mana help adige vallani, manaki veelu ayyentha varku avoid chestham. Ala road medha nadusthunapudu kanipichina, moham thippukoni velle incidents kuda unai. Veelatho entha distance maintain chesthe antha better ani, mostly avoid cheyadaniki try chestham.

Regret for saying ‘No’

hard time saying “No”

Ala prathi sari help chesi chesi, oka point ki edho frustration lo ‘No’ ani chepestham. Kani cheppina taravata, enduku ala cheppanu, help chesthe aipoyedhi, anavasaranaga badha pettanu, ani ilanti chala emotions run avthai. Believe me, final ga ‘No’ chepagaligamu ana satisfaction kante, enduku cheppama ana regret untadi.

Ila manaki chala thoughts ravachu, no cheppalante. Entho struggle padtham ‘No’ ana oka reply ivvadaniki. Kani okasari manam ‘No’ cheppedam alavatu cheskunte, ila ibbandhi padalsina avsarame undadhu. So for everyone out there, who always have a hard time saying ‘No’, entha kastam aina chepseyandi boss! Mimalni meru antha kastapettukokandi.