Monna release aina Mental madhilo anna movie lo hero ki unna chinna chinna confusions chupinchi thana life lo important decision aina life partner confusion main theme cheskoni chaala baaga chupinchaaru… but inka chaala confusions mana life lo unnai Manishi puttina daggarinundi chanipoyevarku confusion !! confusion!! Confusion!!! ( Read in Tagore Chiranjeevi way :P).. so alaanti lo konni important decisions/events lo pade confusions meekosam.. thappulu unte forgive me !!!
Passion Vs Profession
Yes pathika yellu (25 years) unna yee ammai or abbaiki unde common confusion idhi.. ikkada manam modhata 4 categories of manushula gurinchi maatladukovaali:
Passion, Profession rendu same unnavallu
Passion ledu Profession ledu edo okati life ala saagiponi ani anukune vallu kondaru
Reason edaina avvochu konthamandhi thama passion ni pakkana petti profession lo undevallu.
First 2 categories vallaki peddha confusion undadhu.. kaani ee 3rd category undhee… profession ki passion ki Madhya kottu mittu aadutuntaaru…atu passion ki nyayam cheyyaleka.. Profession ki anyanam cheyyaleka sathamathamavthuntaaru.
Ika 4th category gurinchi naaku cheppentha Kapakity (capacity) ledu confused souls…
Deeni gurinchi detailed ga inka eppudaiana maatladukundhaam..
Mid 20 lo kastapadandi Vs Ippudu kaakapothe Life inkeppudu enjoy cheyyali
Passion Vs Profession tarvatha.. athi peddha confusion idhi… kontha mandhi emo job vachaka 10- 15 years kastapadandi.. tarvatha mee future baaguntundi enjoy cheyochu antaaru… naaku okkati ardham kaadu enjoy cheyyalsina age lo kastapadi tarvatha entha time unna dabbulu unna em pikuthaam ani…
Inkoka point of view enti ante… this is the time we have to enjoy repu em avuthundo evariki telusu unna rojulu enjoy cheyali ane argument okati untadi.. malli akkada conflict enti ante.. ippudu ila future gurinchi aalochana lekunda pothe … emauthundi naa future ki repu pelli aithe obligations avanni ela handle cheyali ani..
Love Vs attraction
Konchem complicated subject… deeni gurinchi maatlade experience, anubhavam rendu naaku levu… but I will try (only male point of view chepthaanu)…
Naa drushtilo aithe chusina prathi ammai nachithe adi valla meedha unna attraction…
Ala kaakunda oke ammai ni enni saarlu choosina oke level of feeling unte adey love…
So alaa mundhu kallaku nachi tarvatha mella mellaga manasuki kuda nache vallu dorikentha varaku… confusion confusion…
Friend-zoned Vs Love
Love Vs Attraction kante idhi inka konchem complicated subject yee… ( again male point of view).
Ikkada ekkuvaga suffer ayyedhi abbailu.. oka ammai tho friendship cheste unless maaku rest of the life meetho kanapadaka poyenthavaraku aa friendship ante line daati love ane circle loki enter avvamu…
Aaa ammai ki dhairyam chesi Love ani chepdhaam ante!! Emo thanatho unna friendship ane relation ekkada effect authundo ani baaadha Love express cheyakunda alaage so called Friendzone lo undi podhaam ante again mana lopala unna vaadiki answer cheppukovaali.
Malli two sides untaai friendship if different love is different renditni ela combine chestaav ani in my opinion good friends can be a good couple…
Quality of people vs Quantity of people:
Oka roju oka kurradi intiki vaalla relatives vacharu… vallu vellipoina tarvatha velli aa kurraadu valla ammani “ amma ippudu mana intiki vachare.. vaallanu nuvvu eppudu tiduthu untaav kadha aina kuda vallu vachinapudu enduku amma antha prema chupinchadam valla meedha ?” ani adigaadu..
Daaniki valla amma “eppudu evaritho em avasaram vastundo evariki telusu… lopala entha vaallu nachakunna bayatiki alaa undaali… aina neeku ivannai telidu le ra.. “ ani cheppindi…
Daaniki aa kurradu “Amma oka manishi nachakapoina vallatho normal ga maatladaalaa ?.. repu vaaditho edo avasaram vastundemo ani eroju ila manaku nachannattu undadam thappu kada ani annadu… nachakapothe nachaledu anthe… daaniki lopala oka feeling pettukoni bayata inkola enuduku undaali ani adigaadu”.
Daaniki Vaalla amma “ Neeku vayasu perige koddhi ardham avthundi le “ ani navvi oorukundi..
Mana chuttu manaku nachina naluguru unte chaala…? Leka nachina nachakapoina nalabai (40) mandhi chuttu manam tiragaalaa?
But ikkada oka chinna point 4 manushulu unte chaalu ankunna vaadiki migitha 36 mandhi avasaraaniki help cheyakapothe accept chese dhairyam kudaa undaali sumi!!!
Money Vs Money with Happiness
Generally, job chese vallu two type’s untaaru:
Salary konchem thakkuva vache vallau but villaki they will have their own personal time for family friends and their hobbies, villaki konchem dabbulu ibbandhi ga unna they can manage it off.
Manchi high salary untundi.. but villaki office thappithe inko place teliyadu (most of the cases inthe)… vellaki spend cheyadaniki dabbu untundi kaani aa dabbu spend chese time undadhu frankly.
Second category vaadu .. first category vaadini chusi vaadikenti nakanna konchem salary thakkuva vachina family, friends tho happy ga untunnadu… ani
Paina cheppina confusion two category vallaki untundi… but frank ga cheppalante money doesn’t give you happiness… but ee confusion maatram manalni ventaaduthunnatte untadi..
Eppudu Nijam cheppali Vs Avasaram unnappudu abaddham cheppochu
Manalo chaala mandhi avasaraaniki chaalane abaddhaalu chepthu untaam… assalu abaddhalu enduku chepthaam ?? Naaku telisi important ga mostly ee 2 reasons:
Avathali valla santosham kosam or avathala vallu feel avthaaru ani
Situation nundi escape avvadaaniki..
But nenu monne oka maata vinna adi enti ante “Nuvvu evarikaina abaddham chepthe … that means you are drawing a line and creating a gap between you and the opposite person anta”
Inka emanna confusions unte comments lo kakkeyandi….