Contributed by Sasanka Veturi
2019 inkonni rojullo ipothundi. We are entering into 2020 a magical year. So yelago yekkada chusina decade trend nadusthondi kabatti, vatillo vetillo vachina changes ok gani manalo vachina change yenta ani alochiste, I mean for girls, e ten years lo mem yem change chusam ante “The way society started treating us”. Anthaku mundu varaku illalo adapillalante minimum chaduvu cheppinchi pelli chesi pampesama anatle yekkuva unaru. Kani ipudu maku antu oka opportunity isthunaru to decide our future. Anduke ye profession lo ayina mamalni memu prove cheskogalguthunam. Inka e dacade lo mem chusina changes lifestyle,dressing ive kadu inka unnay..
1.Career choices:
E pani abbaylu matukuke cheyali lekapothe, e pani ammaylu cheyaleru lanti judgemental dialogues ki virudham ga maku nachina career mem choose cheskune chance vachindi.
2.Marriages:
Pelli vishyanikosthe, pelli chupullo oka aata bomma laga kurchuni vachina vadu yes antada no antada ani tension tho..,, yes anagane sambarapadipoyi thanaki istam unda leda ani kuda adagakunda chesa pellilaki The End cheppam. Rendu mudu sarlu ayina kalisi avithali manishi yelanti vado telsukunake ok cheptham ani, apude pelli ani oppinchagalguthunam. .
3.Our views:
Abhipryam panchukodam anedi oka varam. Adi anni chotlo jaragadu. Intlo yedina magade decisions theskovali. Aroju dinner ki yem cheyali lunch ki yem cheyali lantivi kuda ayana cheptene chese roju nundi “Nuvu yem antav, manam chedama vadha?”ani mammalni adige rojuki vacham. Idantha ma abhipryam chepadam, vatiki respect ivadam start ayinandu valle. Thanks to men for that.
4.Priorities:
Pelli tarvata inti peru mauthundi, unde illu maruthundi. Kani jeevithame marali anedi patha mata. Ipudu matram ala ledu. Ipudu a ammayi ayina marriage tarvata job maneyali, intlone undali ante opukodaniki ready ga ledu. Just because job is not necessary, its her identification. Ala ani family responsibilities gali ki vadaliyetam ledu. We have learnt balancing both professional and personal life.
5.Mindset:
E ten years lo vachina biggest change ide. Mindset of women. Ammo okkalame bayatendukule velladam. Evarno okalni thodu theskelladam better ani anukune time nundi, Yem kaadu I can take care of myself ani self potential develop cheskunam. Idokate kaadu, e job ayithe andaru yem anukuntaro, ila cheste yem antaro, ila unte yem anukuntaro lanti bhayalu anni muta katti ataka meda padesam.
6. Say No:
No chepadam chala kastam. Particularly oka uncomfortable situation lo but thank god we have started our voice to raise whenever we feel discomfort.
E changes anni ma anthata make raledu… there is a strong society and family behind us who started believing in us. Inka akkadakada aadapilalni thappuga chusevallu kuda perugutnaru… but thats a different topic. E ten years lo ayithe this is how women has explored and changed themselves. And yes we are still growing strong. Comment if I missed anything.
