Girl ki 20-21 yrs raagane matches chudatam start chesestharu general ga. Kaani kontha mandhi maathram career oriented ga alochinchi ee process ni delay chesthu untaru. Ala delay chesi chesi late 20’s lo ki enter iypotharu. Late 20’s ante 23 24 kaadandi, 26 inkaa aa paina. Once aa mile stone daataru ante appudu start avthay asalu problems. Late twenties are not a cake walk. Ippudu exact ga manam ade discuss cheyyabothunnam.
1.Evaru chusina pelli!!
‘Manam emo single ga unnam, mana friends andariki emo pellillu aypothunnay. Evarini chusina pelli card pattukoni vachesthunnaru pilavadaniki. Veellaki inka vere panem undada, pelli cheskovadam thappa’. Asalu problem ippudu kaadu mana friends ki pillalu pudathare appudu start avthundi. ‘parents ayyentha maturity unda asalu?’ ani evevo doubts vasthu untay.
2.Lots of pressures
Pressure ante marriage gurinchi mathrame kaadandi. Of course adi kuda major pressure ee anukokndi, adi kaakunda inka chala chala untay. Like, if manaki oka steady job ledanukondi appudu vasthayi questions- ‘Asalu enti ee jeevitham??’ ‘what am I doing with me life??’ ‘okka rupay kuda savings levu, asalu nenu salary ke pani chesthunnana?’ ‘urgent ga oka stable job ki maarali’ ‘ippude em cheyyalekapothunna, tharvatha ivanni cheyagalana??’
Err….. I…. don’t… know….
3.Wanderlust
Ee phase of life lo kotha places chudali, travel cheyyali ani andari anipisthundi. And why not? ‘Manaki job untundi, salary vasthundi, intlo permission adagalsina avasaram kuda undadu. Hmm… job, salary unte sarpothunda, manaki vache salary mana thindi ki rents ke saripovadam ledu malli holidays okati’ *Reality struck*
‘Asalu ee fb lo instagram lo travel photos ni pette vaallani champeyali mundu’.
4.Relationships change…..
Konni relations time tho paatu storng avthu untay. It’s actually a good thing. But konnitlo mathram vichitramaina twists and turn vasthu untay. Growing up ante ide mari. Friendship lo kaani, vere edaina relationship lo kaani, silent problems chaala untay-Inthaku mundu laga archukovadam, kottukovadam lantivi em undav. We suddenly start to react to the things differently. Deeniki pedda reason em undadu, mana perspective change avthundi, so our reactions do.
5.Dating
Late twenties lo athi kashtamaina pani ide, ‘To date someone’. By this time, mostly mana life ki oka stability, maturity vachi unaty. Mana chuttu unde vaallu andaru vaalla vaalla perfect ones tho untaru. And this increases a lot of pressure too. Anduke ‘Look mister, if you are interested in me, direct ga cheppu, manaku elanti teenage dramalu avasaram ledu, understand’.
6.Adulting
Life sudden ga chaala chage aypothundi (of course, sudden em kadu anukondi). Shopping, movies, dinners nundi meetings, presentations, deadlines ki maruthundi. Dealing with tough bosses, tax returns, cooking(maggi lantivi kaakunda, real cooking), laundry sudden ga ive jeevitham aypothay. Haayiga nidrapovadaniki kuda time undadu. Adulting is such a tough thing……
7.New people
By this time, mana group anedi almost fix aypoyi untundi. Vaallu either mana school friends ayna untaru college friends ayna untaru. Literally, manam eppudu veelatho ne time spend chesthu untam. It’s a done deal. Ippudu sudden ga kotha vaalani meet ayyi, kotha vaalatho friendship cheyyadam anedi next to impossible.
8.Growing old
Hmm.. deeni gurinchi em cheppali. Teenage lo unnappudu oka white hair kanipisthene, gandaragolam chesestham. Appudu ante vitamin deficiency ani ededo cheppukoni sardukuntam. Kaani ippudu nijangane aging start aypoyindee… Manam age peruguthu unnam ani ee universe kuda signals isthu untundi.
Finally, good things come to those who embrace change, with good vibes and open heart. Anduke anni marchipoyi happy ga change ni welcome cheyyandi and enjoy the moments. After all, mana life lo most important decade ni edusthu spend cheyakudadu kadandi.
